A recent study done by Rutgers University shows that marriage is on the decline in America. The study shows that cohabitation is more and more increasingly popular. Also, this study finds that people are getting married up to 5-7 years later in life then what the norm was in the 1960’s. The divorce rate is still at a significant high. However, American statistics are in fact slightly better than European countries.
There is a direct link with marriage, the family, and the welfare of the nation. One priest has said that when the family goes, so goes the Church, when the Church goes, so goes the nation. The value and meaning of family has been both attacked and weakened over the last decades. The Church has suffered greatly, not only in America but in other countries as well. And, the state of our nation, its morals and values, are slumping tremendously. Well, it appears the saying is right, no family, no Church, no nation!
We live in a secular society now. Our courts are constantly redefining the “separation of Church and state”. Many feel religion is not necessary in the modern society. Many feel religion is just a scapegoat or a crutch for the week members of society. THIS COULD BE NO FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH!!! If we don’t bring Christ back into the center of society, then our families, Churches, and nations will continue to decline.
To restore the family we must focus on several important issues in today’s culture. First of all, families need to once again pray together as a family. The strength of the family lies in prayer. Those in their 70’s will recall how the family would share the evening meal together every evening. Families prayed the nightly Rosary or the litany of the day, or other prayers together as a family every night.
Second, we must stamp out abortion. Abortion is nothing but legalized murder. It fosters a culture of death rather than life, it gives people decisions and choices that only belong to God, and our view of all types of life begins to decay when we accept the option of murder. It amazes me how people even today are protesting a just war in Iraq to free millions of innocent people. Yet, today we are killing over 4,000 innocent children in this country alone every day legally. How could a mother murder her own child and then deny it of a decent burial even. This is not in keeping with the natural order, it is not in keeping with civilized order, and it certainly is not keeping the Law of God in perspective. Our nation will have to pay for this atrocity. May Christ have mercy on us and on the whole world!
Finally, we must put divorce back into its place. God’s Law says that marriage is between one man and one woman FOREVER!!! This rebukes homosexuality in all forms. It also means that divorce, according to our Lord himself, is only allowable in cases of fornication/adultery. Furthermore, if one is divorced, then remarriage is NOT permissible so long as both parties are still living. No one is allowed to break this bond of marriage without consulting the magisterium of the Church first. The Church must be involved in marriage both at inception and in the dire case of many, dissolution. The Church only has the right to approve the dissolution of marriage.
There are many more points to consider on marriage and religion in the modern world. We must work to restore marriage and religion to its proper place in society - that place is first!
+ Mason